I Took Back the Soup I Made Him: Nigerian Women on Reclaiming Gifts After Breakups
Gifting feels natural when you’re in love. But when relationships end, deciding who keeps what can get messy. We spoke to Nigerian women who refused to walk away empty-handed. From AirPods and iPads to cars and even pepper soup, each story reveals the determination behind reclaiming what they paid for. Ngozi, Bukky, Awele, Pearl and Habiba share how they negotiated returns, stood their ground, and made sure their contributions weren’t overlooked. Their experiences highlight the finer points of ownership, respect and self-worth after a breakup.
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