Why I Waited Until 42 to Lose My Virginity – My Story and Dilemma

I grew up as a pastor’s son and stayed active in church. I was shy and didn’t start talking to girls until my mid-20s. By then, I was busy helping in my dad’s building materials shop and had no one-on-one conversations with women. At 25, my friends mocked my virginity and urged me to visit a hookup place. I had my own apartment by then, but I wanted my first experience to feel meaningful. I refused to be with someone openly selling sex. Now at 42, I’ve met a woman at work and we’ve become friends. I worry my inexperience and shyness will show. Should I seek practice with a casual partner first, or keep pursuing a genuine connection? I’d appreciate any advice.

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