Men, Stop Being Mumu: Rethink Funding Every Expense

Don’t cover her transport, hair, meals or rent. If she wants to come, let her pay her fare. Stop funding her school fees, birthday or shopping. Sex is no longer special. Several women are open to casual arrangements. If you must pay, be clear that it’s strictly for sex. Once she’s paid, move on. Don’t get trapped by emotional blackmail. Kindness isn’t an investment. You risk loss when you bankroll her life. I’ve seen a man pay for a woman’s education only to be left behind. Learn from that: set boundaries and stop wasting money.

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