Looking for a Co-Parent: Child First, No Marriage Required

I’m a 40-year-old Nigerian man who is settled, responsible, and clear about my goals. I want to have a child and be fully involved—financially and emotionally. I’m not interested in marriage or living together. I value my independence and believe an honest co-parenting arrangement offers a healthier environment than a forced marriage. I’m seeking a woman who wants to be a mother but isn’t focused on finding a husband. She should be independent, stable, self-aware, and value her privacy as much as I value mine. I will show up consistently and provide for our child. There’s no ring and no shared roof—just a respectful, structured partnership. If this resonates, let’s have a sincere conversation.

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