Men: Why You Shouldn’t Fund Casual Relationships
Many men think they’re in a relationship when marriage isn’t on the table. Don’t be fooled by labels like "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" if there’s no commitment. If you have no intention to marry, treat her like a paid service. Invite her over, agree on a fee, then let her go until you need her again. Avoid spending on school fees, hair, family issues, airtime or gifts. Don’t get emotionally attached. Once you start caring, you lose leverage. One guy even paid his so-called fiancée’s university fees only to have her leave him after NYSC camp. If you plan to marry, that’s a different game. Meet her parents, verify her character and only then commit your resources. Stay watchful right up to the wedding day.
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