Six Years of Chosen Love: Inside Kikelomo and Dr. Reuben Abati’s Resilient Marriage
In marking their sixth anniversary, media host Kikelomo shared a heartfelt message to her husband, “Ruby” or “Ireti” (hope). She spoke of hidden scars, societal labels and the choice to love despite past wounds. She praised Dr. Reuben Abati’s unwavering support through public scrutiny, foundation work and the joys and challenges of a blended family. Far from a fairy tale, their journey included dark nights and public battles—moments they turned into shared strength. By framing their union as redemptive—“a crown of beauty for ashes”—Kikelomo highlights love as a deliberate choice. Their story challenges traditional expectations and shows how vulnerability, resilience and mutual elevation can create an imperfect yet inspiring partnership.
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