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I Went Through Four Abortions for Him—Then He Married Another Woman

I grew up as a pastor’s daughter in a strict Christian home. My parents drilled into me that premarital sex was wrong and abortion was murder. At university, I met Tade. He showed me affection my family never gave. When I first got pregnant at 21, he persuaded me to abort. Over the next five years, I agreed to three more procedures—even though each time I wrestled with guilt and fear. Those years left me scarred. I worried about my health and battled my faith. Tade always reassured me, but he never truly understood my pain. Then, just months after our fifth anniversary, I learned he was marrying someone else. I never confronted him or asked for closure. Today, I’ve lost trust in men and can’t imagine letting anyone that close again.

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grace5 days ago

Given her strict upbringing and the pressure she faced, what do you think motivated her to go through four abortions with him?

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jude5 days ago

Absolutely, it's clear her upbringing and pressure made her feel stuck and hopeful he'd change.

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cynthia5 days ago

I feel you, na strong loyalty and hope for love fit make person endure that pressure.

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yemi5 days ago

It's striking that someone raised to view abortion as murder would still submit to four procedures under his influence.

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olivia5 days ago

I get her pain, but isn't she partly responsible if she agreed each time instead of standing up for her own convictions?

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jaruma5 days ago

She might consider seeking counseling to rebuild self-worth and establish boundaries before entering any new relationship.

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