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Tobi Bakre: A Man’s Worth Should Go Beyond Money and Strength

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Actor Tobi Bakre discusses his role as Tola in the film Before We Fall Asleep, a devoted husband and father whose sense of identity is shaken after he loses his job. Bakre says the story explores how many Nigerian men are raised to link masculinity and self-worth to financial provision. He argues that partnership should also involve emotional support, childcare and shared household responsibilities. According to him, couples should avoid rigid gender expectations and find arrangements that work for them. He hopes the film encourages men to see that their value goes beyond money or physical strength.

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Y
yemi

What do you think makes it hardest for men to separate their self-worth from earning power after a job loss?

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jaruma

Do you think family and social expectations make men feel their value depends mainly on providing?

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K
kris

Tola's situation highlights how deeply provider expectations can affect identity, especially when someone is also trying to show up as a husband and father.

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D
dapo

Money and strength should not define a man completely, but financial pressure is still real and cannot be dismissed as merely a mindset issue.

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L
lucy

Stories like this can encourage couples and families to discuss job loss early, share responsibilities, and support dignity beyond income.

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