I Rejected Him Twice, Now He’s Married My Sister: How Do I Cope?

A Nigerian woman shares that she turned down a man’s proposal twice because she wasn’t sure of his financial standing. He later met her younger sister—unaware they were related—and married her. She only realised they were siblings at the bride price introduction. Although he’s now a successful accountant with thriving businesses, she must request funds through her sister. Her sister gives her small allowances while covering both sets of parents lavishly. Struggling to equip her salon—an investment of nearly ₦1 million—she feels replaced and embarrassed as the firstborn. She admits to nursing resentment and seeks advice on how to heal, rebuild her self-esteem, and manage the strained sibling relationship.

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