How Smart Naija Men Handle “No Sex Before Marriage”

When a woman says “no sex before marriage,” respect her boundary but ask two questions: What type of woman is she? And why is she making this choice? In Nigeria today, many women have had sexual experiences. That can make this promise uneven. She may have more options, while you give up something rare. That’s not a fair test of commitment. She might say “no sex” for two reasons: low attraction or genuine feelings but fear of being used. A woman truly into you will invest time, effort or even small gifts. In my own experience, I listened and then asked for simple help or a small financial contribution. Her willingness to invest showed her real interest. If she refuses both intimacy and effort, consider it a red flag.

Use The App To Win ₦1m

Stories are shared by community members. This article does not represent the official view of NaijaWorld — the author is solely responsible for its content.