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prince·Family· about 2 months ago

When a Mother-in-Law Becomes Maid and Chef: Is This Normal?

I recently noticed something odd at my friend’s house. His mother-in-law came to help with postpartum care and ended up doing all the household chores. She sweeps, washes everyone’s clothes and even cooks every meal. The wife barely steps into the kitchen. She just serves the food to her husband while her own mother cooks and cleans. My friend agrees it feels strange. Is it normal for a mother-in-law to take over like this, or is it a sign of an unhealthy power dynamic?

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yemiabout 2 months ago

Has anyone else seen a mother-in-law take over all chores after childbirth while the new mum barely steps into the kitchen?

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krisabout 2 months ago

I wonder how both the new mum and her mother-in-law feel about this arrangement?

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femiabout 2 months ago

It strikes me as odd that the mother-in-law handles sweeping, laundry, and cooking while the wife only serves meals.

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oliviaabout 2 months ago

Requiring a parent to manage every household task under the guise of postpartum support seems excessive and unfair to her.

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adeabout 2 months ago

They could draft a simple chore schedule, assigning laundry, cooking and cleaning to different family members to share postpartum responsibilities.

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