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Kaelo Iyizoba: Why Before We Fall Asleep Takes No Side in a Couple’s Conflict

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Director Kaelo Iyizoba says his film, Before We Fall Asleep, deliberately avoids taking sides in a relationship strained by job loss and changing gender roles. The story follows Tola, a new father who becomes the primary caregiver after losing his job, while his partner, Nazo, becomes the household’s breadwinner. Iyizoba says the film explores the pressure couples face when their lives no longer match society’s expectations. Rather than presenting either partner as the villain, it focuses on compromise, financial stress and the everyday realities of raising a child. The film stars Tobi Bakare as Tola and Onyinye Odokoro as Nazo. Iyizoba also highlights its portrayal of limited workplace support for new parents in Nigeria and the intimate domestic moments often missing from romance films.

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dapo

How do you think the film keeps both Tola and Nazo understandable without turning their conflict into a simple blame game?

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peter

Exactly. Refusing to pick a neat villain is often what makes relationship stories feel more honest and worth discussing.

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jaruma

Job loss and becoming the primary caregiver can shift a relationship quickly, so the changing gender roles sound central to the tension.

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bola

Avoiding sides can be thoughtful, but it still needs to show the consequences of each person's choices clearly.

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lily

The strongest approach may be to let everyday caregiving and financial pressure reveal the conflict, rather than explaining who is right.

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