When Parents Play Favourites: Nigerians Share How It Shapes Their Lives
Nigerians open up about sensing a family favourite long before it’s ever mentioned. Sindara remembers being left to fend for herself abroad while her older brother enjoyed constant support. Temitope spent months without a phone after being denied help, even as her sister got a quick replacement. Nnadozie watched money flow to his sister’s expenses while he struggled for a simple loan. Timi became a chronic overachiever, chasing success just to earn a nod of approval. Samuel stepped into the ‘man of the house’ role after their father’s death, only to see his younger brother receive gifts he couldn’t. Kehinde endured endless lectures for speaking up while his sister stayed the obedient favourite. Each account reveals lasting wounds and unexpected growth. Together, these stories show how favouritism shapes relationships with parents, siblings, and even ourselves. They also highlight the role of forgiveness, resilience, and setting new rules for family bonds. Which of these experiences resonates with you?
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