My Girlfriend Refuses Sex Until Marriage—What Should I Do?

I plan to marry her around August or September. At first she said she was a virgin, then later shared she was abused in secondary school. I didn’t fully believe her story, but I went along. Now she insists on no sex until after we’re married. We get intimate and even undress, but she won’t allow penetration. I’ve warned it could break us, yet she stays firm. Is this a trust issue or a boundary I must respect? I’ve read many “alpha male” teachings online and I’m torn between applying those lessons or honoring her limit. I’ve already compromised by accepting her past and marrying outside my hometown. How do I handle this without feeling taken advantage of?

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